Think twice before....

As the title of the post itself conveys the matter in question i need not prepare a background for the things i want to share. Being judgmental is no crime. In fact, its your own analysis and verdict about every YES-NO or  To Be-Not To Be situations which makes you fit for survival. After all, who else can decide better for us. By god's grace each of us is gifted with a grey matter complementing five primary senses and their usage is set in motion as time pass by. So we all have the right of thinking and deciding the best for us. Even though these facts are known and accepted by all, it's used superficially. We have somehow failed to appreciate the fact that our bodies are biologically same provided for some variations for determining sex. Apart from that we all posses Brain and Five basic senses. 

I am often inquisitive of stupendous judgement people pronounce on the account of their experience, better analytic skills, reasoning, fruitful efforts in some XYZ situation, social service instincts and what not. Look around once and you'll find many doing this to you. They come to you as an guardian angel and in no time will make you handicapped. Mind you, they wont stop at this, very soon you ll listen to glorious stories of how dumb you are and how remarkably they have saved you. And by then it would be too late to advocate yourself. Sharing what all we already know is not bad until it suppress receiver's own assessment and right of decision making. A mouthful of wisdom is good to go but try not to overshadow other's thought process. Remember, helping a caterpillar coming out of shell makes an ugly butterfly. Not every lesson could be learned, heard. 

Similarly there are few who don't mind labeling each and every creation of almighty. Thank god for creating such light houses for our enlightenment. There are n no. of peeping eyes itchy to "Name" you at the very first look. Even if i leave significant and obvious points of weighing someone, there are so many to be taken care of while you are scanned. 

- Eeeuuuu she keeps a yellow bag...didn't you noticed her silver dress, so gaudy i tell u. 

- He takes his pup out daily in evening. I think something is going on between him and daughter of Mr. Z.

- X's sister's DIL asked for a divorce. Poor girl. Even X looks cunning, must be like her sister only. Who will   give their daughter to X knowing all this.

- I heard S resigned from her job. Who knows she resigned or was thrown out. My daughter told me             she always remains busy with her phone. Which employer tolerates this.

- She doesn't eat dosa with a fork...how tacky

- He asked for the leftover food to get packed...sucha miser i tell you..want worth of his each penny

C'on give them a break. Do what is best for you and be merciful to rest of the world. Fundamental rights are available to all without fail. Do not dictate just because they cant sue you for depriving them of their own rights. Its good to mind your own business and to accept and respect others like the way they are. If you can't keep your figures down please avoid putting and pressing it above all. You may be an exemplar of all virtues but you should agree with the fact that furnishing not-so-required advice is absolutely not cool. Not everybody's way of committing sin could be same.